The Internet Is Awesome!

I love the internet.

I feel like there is always something I want to buy.

Rinse Ase 3901

My Own Shower Children's Showerhead

$18.29

This is totally friggin awesome!  It's in my cart on Amazon.

So far it has a 4.5 rating by 16 reviewers.

Gonna totally get this.

 

The internet relates to me and I feel like I'm not alone.

 

I can stay on top of my bible reading because Facebook reminds me every day!

 

I can always find cool, cheap ways to grow veggies.  Even though I won't because the bunnies will eat them.

 

I can find all the amazing recipes in the world!

 

 

And finally...

It's full of friggin cuteness.

 



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Saturday Catch Up

Wow, I've been really sucking at blogging lately.  I do have a couple of other blogs I work on.  I guess I hit a little block so I write in another blog, then I'll hit another block in that one, so I'll write in this one.  Writing is a lot of fun for me, so when I do get up the nerve to type something up, it's a really nice feeling.  Lately, I've been all about the dog though.

In Just Keep The Dog (aka JKTD), I write about... dogs.  That's a given, right?  It's pretty hard to write competitively, though.  I mean, there are TONS of dog blogs on the internet.  There are so many fun things to read about our four legged furballs.  So, like in this blog, I don't write to gain followers or sell things.  Not that those are bad... I'm just not one to compete.  I guess I'm a lazy writer.  Anyway, JKTD is a way for me to highlight Bruce.  For someone who can't speak to us humans, I believe he has a voice--and lots of really important things to say.  So I write for him.  And I have a lot of fun doing that. 

Then there's Seeking Dog Lover, my book blog.  I'm working on spreading awareness on dog abuse and neglect.  In Seeking Dog Lover, I tell Bruce's story about the life he knew before he joined my crazy family.  It's a fiction story based on only what I knew from his Owner Surrender paperwork.  I tell it in first person point of view so that readers are able to relate to a character that actually has thoughts.  I use no names, other than his and other animals.  And I describe the things that are happening the way I believe a dog experiences it.  My goal is to grow empathy in readers, change the mindset of those who don't see what's wrong with neglecting their pet.  I love writing it.

As for my real life, so much has been happening!!  I find myself so busy and filled with thoughts that I simply am too darn lazy to write about them.  So hopefully this will not only let you know what's going on with the Mama in Combat Boots, but give you something that will make you smile. 

Here it goes...

Yesterday, the boys had a fight on the way in to their daycare/youth center:

 

Sean:

I'm tired of you saying that!

 

Caden:

Well I'm tired of YOU!

 

Sean:

I'm tired of your ENTIRE body!

 

Caden:

I'm tired of your entire body AAANNNDDD your butt cheeks.

 

*Pause*

 

Sean:

You said butt cheeks.

 

Caden:

Yeah.

 

Both:

HAHAHAHAHAHA

 

Bruce was... his usual self.

 

He has succeeded in being his usual super sweet self, posing for belly rubs and begging strangers for love as well.

His hips have been really bad lately, so he's also been getting some heat compress sessions and massages.  I tell him every day that I love him.

 

 

My best friend rescued a humming bird in our office.  The poor thing flew in and couldn't find its way back out.

So my little rescuer caught it gently in his hands and allowed me a chance to take a pic before he released it. 

I got to witness yet another miracle of God.  Something so small and fragile, yet so beautiful and powerful in its flight.  I love our Lord.

 

 

I am reminded every day that God is good.  My drive to work greets me with beauty every day.

And I do have to mention that I got scolded by my own troop that I am not being safe taking pictures while driving.  I have learned to control myself when I see a beautiful sky.

Obviously not for this pic, but....

 

 

Stride made my day when I opened the wrapper of this pack of gum only to be faced with an adorable face of a Boston's gigantic puppy eyes. 

Love!

 

 

I finally found out why my travel mug cover has been ending up under the sink.

My crazy trio has been stealing it and hiding it there... along with:

My kids' crocks, arch supports, rubber gloves, and kid toys.

Thieves!

 

We celebrated Fourth of July with my sister-in-law and friends.

Hot dogs and Chamorro barbeque-- OH YEAH BABY.

 

Not a day goes by without my beautiful boys giving me a hug that almost strangles me.

I love it every time.

 







I was visited by leadership who congratulated me on being selected for promotion to E-6.

It's about friggin time!!  I've only been eligible for SEVEN YEARS.

Woo hoo!!!!  I pin on the new rank August first.

MAMA'S GONNA MAKE SOME MONEY!

 

Basic Cadet Training. 

This keeps us busy every summer.  Yay for working on weekends.

 

  



BCT can tire us...

If you follow my Facebook page, you get to stay up to date on my latest gripes and whines about them.  Hehehe

 

I've been bringing in Folgers Vanilla Biscotti coffee and Kona Vanilla Macadamia Nut coffee beans.  It makes work BETTER.

 

 

Despite the extra hours, I still get to enjoy the beauty in the job I do.

I'm pretty blessed, I think.

 

 

So that about sums it up.  Well, the big stuff I can think of off the top of my head right now, anyway.  There's always the usual stuff everyone deals with like reluctantly waking up every morning because I'm soooo sleepy, trying to keep updated on watching Lost (I know the show ended ages ago.. .I'm slow), dealing with weird neighbor kids who just HAVE to come to the porch to pet Bruce--which isn't so fun when I just want to relax, watching Forgetting Sarah Marshall and laughing my ass off, and many many many more common day-to-day stuff.

 

Have a GREAT Saturday!!  I'll try to write more.  Promise.

 

Peace!



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Reflective Sunday

Sunday is the first day of the week so I thought it would be great to start the week with a quick reminder of how good my life is and how blessed I am. 

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Pumpkin Bisque Anyone?

I am a huge food hound. I like trying different foods and I love cooking. But not everyone is as adventurous and I have to refrain from feeling hurt when others don't like what I cook. Even if the "others" are my kids. :-/

Today I made a pumpkin bisque. I thought it was fabulous. 

First I sautéed an onion and a couple of carrots with a couple tablespoons of butter and a tablespoon of sage leaves.  

I sautéed them long enough to get tender. 

Then I puréed them in a blender with a splash of chicken stock and a banana.

After I puréed the mix, I poured them into a stockpot with a can of pure pumpkin purée.

I added 2 cups of chicken stock and 1 cup of soy milk (I have a milk allergic boy). 

Heat it all up and add your favorite seasoning. I used salt, pepper, curry powder and garlic powder.

Add a salad to the meal. 

Again, I thought the soup was amazing. It smelled wonderful, tasted unique and delicious, and was healthy enough. 

But alas, not everyone enjoys what I enjoy. 

Caden pretended to like it. 

Sean took a lick and said he was full. 

Guess its just me eating today. 

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Add A Bowl Of Soap

I'm really big on making my home a happy place.  It's gotta look cozy and welcoming, it's gotta smell like food, and it's gotta sound like life.  My home is never pristine and it'll drive a neat freak absolutely bonkers.  But my kids (and anyone else's kids who come over) feel like this is HOME.  And that's important to me. 

When you are having people over for dinner, a BBQ, a party, whatever, hopefully you will want them to feel comfortable in your home.  Here are a few things you might find helpful for the next time your guests are planning on coming over.

What you don't want your guests to walk into:

The Uptight, Don't-Do-This-Or-That-House

You know what house I'm talking about.  And see?  I've already used the word "house" instead of "home."  It's the type of house that's so clean and orderly with tons of those breakable objects and expensive paintings that the average person looking to have a good time with some friends will feel terribly uncomfortable even walking into.  When you're walking into a home like this, you feel as if you're walking into a museum.  The host is probably polite enough, but you feel as if you can't afford to touch anything in case you smudge it with your fingerprint and find out the object you've touched has been passed down from generation to generation and "everyone" knows you don't just pick that up.  What you usually hear from the host or people who've been to this place once before are things like, "Oh we don't sit on that chair, that's an heirloom," "Actually, could your kids stop jumping?  We don't allow loud feet in here," "Oh, excuse me, I'm sorry but we don't walk on the grass."  Unless you're planning a fancy dinner party, don't let your guests feel like they're walking on thin ice the moment they step into your home.

The Real "Don't Mind The Mess" House

Many people say, "Please don't mind the mess" when people walk into their home.  It's a habitual way of demonstrating humility or modesty about one's home.  But when you say it and prayerfully mean it, maybe you should've rescheduled the visit.  Here's what not to do:  Don't leave your laundry on the couch-- even though you've already washed and dried it, your guests simply see a pile of clothes and please don't let there be an underwear hanging out.  If your dog poops on the floor, even if it's on a puppy pad, please please please clean that up before your guests arrive.  And spray some air freshener.  If you have a pot of last night's dinner on the stove-- throw the food out and wash the pot.  Put on a bra-- enough said.  But most of all, if you are a hoarder (a true hoarder) please seek help before letting people come in.  Unless they're trying to get you out of there.  Now don't get me wrong, these are little things individually, but if you're really not ready to have company over, simply give your home a quick pick-up.  Put that load of clean laundry on your bed, clean up any yucky messes and air out your home.  It's good to let your home look lived in, but try not to let your guests feel uncomfortable or gross staying in it.

The House With "That Dog"

I love animals.  I have 4 pets of my own.  But I wouldn't ever want my guests to feel assaulted when I let them in.  My dog doesn't jump on guests-- he'll definitely approach them and hope for some pets, but he doesn't go crazy jumping all over them begging for a treat.  If you're a dog owner, it is a really beneficial thing to train your dog.  He doesn't have to have his Canine Good Citizen certification but he should be well mannered.  Not only would you be showing your guests that they are welcome in your home, but it is really great for your dog!  If you must have people over and your dog is just not a people kind of person, you might want to crate him while people are over.

What You Do Want Your Guests To Walk Into:

The Comfortable, Easy-Going Home

Your home should feel like home to welcomed guests-- and your family!  You don't have to make it look beautiful.  You don't have to feel bad about your kids jumping up and down.  And you definitely shouldn't apologize for even having a dog.  There are a ton of little things you can do to make your home FEEL happy.  Think of your five senses and go from there:

1. See:  Your home should look comfy and cozy. 
1. Put a throw on the couch.
2. Hang a fresh hand towel by your sink.
3. Clean your guest bathroom.
4. Get some fresh flowers and put the vase in the middle of your dining or entry table.
5. Let your kids play!
6. Brush your dog.
2. Hear:  A quiet home is an uncomfortable one.
1. Turn the TV on, not too loud but enough for background noise.  Put on a good, clean comedy.
2. Leave a couple (just a couple) of dishes in the sink so when you let your guests in you can leave them to have a seat and you can wash the dishes.  It lets them relax.
3. Talk to them!
3. Smell:  Food is always a good welcoming gesture.
1. Before your guests arrive, heat up a pan of olive oil and some garlic.  Keep it on low so as not to let it burn.  Garlic, although not a good kissing scent, is a great way to break up any nervousness in the atmosphere.
2. Heat up a candle warmer with some kind of baked goods scent.  I personally like my Scentsy blueberry cheesecake scent.
4. Touch:  When people are nervous, they tend to need something to keep their hands busy.
1. Brush your dog! 
2. Keep a comfy teddy bear on the couch.
3. Have a few books or magazines out.
4. Knick-knacks are great for keeping guests entertained.
5. Taste:  Again, food is always a good welcoming gesture.
1. If your guests are not coming for dinner or a party, have a bowl of chips or pretzels out on your dining or coffee table.
2. Make a good queso or other type of dip.
3. Have a pitcher or iced tea or water out for them.

I'm a huge home person.  I love my home and when people come over I want them to feel at home.  Most of all, though, I want my kids to remember the feeling of home as a good, loving place that they always felt safe in both emotionally and physically.

I keep a variety of soaps in a bowl by my kitchen sink.  It adds color and makes people smile. 

I've seen it!

 

My fridge holds things that makes me smile.  Pictures, art, and good coupons.

I keep my fruit, veggies and bread in baskets on my counter.  It looks busy but also fun!

My home would drive a neat freak crazy!!  My dining room is also a mini-library and art space.

 

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I got hit in the face with a ball

Yup.  I sure did.  The enlisted team and I were playing wallyball.  If you've never played wallyball before, you can read about it here.  It's pretty similar to volleyball but in a racquetball court.  It's wild, crazy and sometimes painful.  But it's a lot of fun and as nonathletic as I am, I always end up enjoying it.

For the past 7 months, I'd been in charge of the team while our boss was deployed.  It has been a really interesting experience.  I've been involved with each individual member of the team both personally and professionally.  I've had to discipline in a way that doesn't take away their ability to confide in me when their personal life is affecting their work.  I've had to constantly watch myself and how I'm portraying my own values and ethics.  I can't expect the team to be prompt every day if I'm always late.  I can't hold them accountable if I myself am running from my integrity.  It's been a bit rough... but pretty rewarding as well.

Before the boss returned from his deployment, the crew decided we should spend one last hurrah together.  So we did some glow golf (awesome black light putt putt) and a laser race (you know, those lasers in high-vis banks or museums?).  We had an absolute blast!

So for PT last week, we played wallyball.  I really suck at it.  I got hit on my right boob, bruised both my wrists, and took a shot to the face.  They laughed.  But they also high-fived me.  I'm going to miss being their leader.  They're a great team.

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Summer Is Here

 

We spent the morning and early afternoon being lazy.  I loved it.  I love getting to enjoy the boys without any agenda, nothing planned, just me and them.  We laid on the couch and watched Transformers Prime on Netflix, ate breakfast, went back to watching.  The boys eventually got up to play with their Transformers toys.  I hung out with them and asked questions about their role playing.

There's this really obnoxious guy at work who irritates the crap out of me.  He asked me once, "How are you going to raise your boys to be men?  I mean, don't you think they need a male role model?"  I can't stand ignorant remarks.  Granted, this dude is super obnoxious.  Most of the time the things that come out of his mouth is used to seek attention or an attempt to gain validation of his infinite wisdom.  I didn't take his comment to heart.  I simply said, "They have God and their uncles.  I think they'll be fine."  He didn't say anything to that.  And I do remember my kids' father made a comment during our divorce.  He said, "If she raises those boys without me, they'll grow up to be pansies."  And now as I sat with my boys watching them smash their Transformers into each other with enthusiastic war cries, I had to smile to myself.  I think I'm doing pretty darn well.

I spent the early part of the afternoon repotting my flowers and sweeping my porch.  It's summer.  It's beautiful.  And I love my life.

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Gym-Time Wednesday

So I only get to hit the gym on Wednesdays... and that's because we have group PT and we've been doing individual PT, I get to do my own personal work outs.  I still work out 6 days a week but being able to go to the gym is such a bonus!

Here's today's workout:

Warm-up jumping jacks (Yeah, let's get this on!  Woo hoo!  I'm gonna build me a butt and some nice thighs)
Warm-up arm circles (Woo hoo!! I'm at the gym!)
Warm-up burpees (I HATE burpees.  But yay I'm at the gym!)
Stretch (Here I come, sexy body!  I'm gonna get you!)
50 squats (That last ten was a little tight)
30 squats (Whoa... do it for the butt!!)
20 squats (I can do this... I can do this)
30 squats (Ouchhhh...DO IT DAMMIT)
5 slow squats (Feel the friggin buuurrrrnnn)

30 seconds rest (Yay I did it!!  135 squats!  Boo yah!  My jeans are gonna hate me)

40 sit ups (Yay!  Since I've had my kids I've neglected my belly)
38 crunches (Yikes... that was a little tough but manageable.  Made sure to keep my form.)
33 second planks (Was gonna go for 1 minute but let's stick to the workout plan, shall we?)
20 push-ups (I really don't like push-ups.  I really don't.)

30 seconds rest (Okay, so I need more belly work.  And my push-ups suck but I think it's because I did 135 SQUATS YEAH BABY!)

40 sit ups (Get that belly in shape.  I can do this.)
10 TYIs (This is where I lean my belly on a balance ball and do 3 different styles of supermans.  My upper back is gonna get in shape!)
30 Russian twists (Okay I'm tired.)

10 minutes Elliptical set to butt toner! (I ran out of gym time, but was really enjoying this because I got to watch Judge Judy while burning my butt and legs.)

I'm pretty happy with today's workout!  The other 5 days are spent doing the squat challenge and abs challenge.  I feel pretty good that I'm at least doing something, but I sure do love the gym.

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Expressive Monday

Sean and I were feeling a bit expressive last night.

I got a stylus for my iPhone and I was so excited!!! I was able to sketch up a horse.

Sean drew what looked to me like a monster. I don't know what it is. He drew it and left it at the table.
But it looks awesome!

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Caprese Salad!

I learned about the Caprese salad from a friend of mine who was on a health food and raw eating diet.  She made one for me years ago and I've since had a love for it.  In fact it is my favorite salad.  For one, I love veggies and I absolutely fancy cheese.  And two, the basil makes this whole concoction smell amazing.  The fragrance just brings you to another place.  

All you need is one large tomato, one red onion, a few stems of basil, and a ball of fresh mozzarella.  If you get the tomato fresh from a farmer's market, I promise you will absolutely go crazy for it.  Fresh tomatoes just have a wonderful flavor and fragrance.  And I promise it really does make a difference when making this salad.  Oh!  I forgot-- you'll need a few things for the dressing:  extra virgin olive oil, balsamic vinegar, salt, and pepper.

 Slice the tomatoes into large patties and dice up the onion and basil.  While cutting the veggies, I swear I get just a little happier.  The basil is always fun because the fragrance just fills the air.  BTW, I didn't get the farm fresh tomatoes this time... I wish I did.

Next, you'll want to cut up the cheese.  You can do this any way you like.  A friend of mine slices up the cheese the same way she slices her tomatoes.  It comes out neater in appearance.  But I'm a little less organized.  I like my salads to be a little more sporadic.  So I usually chunk the cheese up a bit.  Say that five times.  Chunk the cheese.  Chunk the cheese.  Chunk the cheese.  Chunk the cheese.  Chunk the cheese.  Did you say it out loud?  hehehe Gotcha.

 After you get everything nice and diced, sliced and chunked, you'll want to lay the tomatoes down on a large plate.  I like using my bright plates because it really brings out the colors in the vegetables.  The sky blue really presents a nice contrast with the red tomatoes.

Now you're going to put everything on top of the tomatoes.  I usually throw the cheese on next, then the onion, and finally the basil.  The basil is kind of like the finishing touch because it's so light and ... well, leafy.  It acts as a garnish as well as an ingredient.  Once your veggies are all prettied up on the platter, you're going to add your dressing.  It's super easy.  Sprinkle some extra virgin olive oil and balsamic vinegar and then add a little salt and pepper.  Try not to drown your salad in the veggies. I promise you'll only need a little bit.  The taste of the veggies should be enhanced by and not drowned in the dressing.

This salad looks, tastes, and smells amazing.  My meat eater, Sean, loves this dish.  As soon as I put it on the table today, he said, "Mommy, what is THAT!  Can I eat it?"  We both finished the entire salad.

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