It's my Air Force birthday!
Thirteen years ago today, I stepped off a bus and into the life of the Air Force. I grew not only as an Airman, but as a woman and as an individual. I am a mother, a supervisor, a Wingman who can think for herself as a Non-Commissioned Officer. I can count the number of times on one hand when I swore I wouldn't reenlist. And each time I did that, I imagined hanging up the uniform and I knew deep inside I just couldn't do it. I love serving my country and I love the Air Force.
It's a special day and I'm so grateful for it.
Kids Corner
I took the kids to a gaming center where they played bumper cars, rode roller coasters and climbed a big wall. Caden is quite the climber and isn't afraid to demonstrate it. Their faces were red and their hair was all matted with sweat. When we got home, they went straight to bed without a fight.
Inspiring Quote
“You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there.”
― Bob Marley
― Bob Marley
Movie Highlight
I recently watched Grizzly Man, a documentary about Timothy Treadwell, a free spirit who chose to live in the wilderness... alongside grizzly bears. Before I watched the movie, I heard about his story and the negative comments that were made about him. People said he got what he deserved. Even I slightly judged his decision. But watching the documentary made me appreciate what he was trying, or thought he was trying, to do. He had a passion for wildlife. He was a troubled person with depression issues and sought a way to fulfill a purpose he believed he had. In the documentary, you can clearly see his outrage for the human race and his compassion for the animals. At the end of the movie, I was inspired by him. Not to go out and do what he did, but to seek my own purpose and to find a way to serve it. I thought it was a beautiful story and I believe he not only found himself but perhaps God as well.
Current Song Obsession
The movie Grizzly Man inspired me to purchase Coyotes by Don Edwards. It is a beautiful song that speaks of appreciating the past and finding yourself alone with just the coyotes, a creature that doesn't even accompany man. It is a passionate song and I enjoy it very much.
Random Photo
I just love this photo of my kids.
It's not clear
It's not perfect
But it captures the beauty of my life.
Extremely Short Story
Empty Promises
by ... Me :-)
I passed you on my way to the daycare again. My light turned green and I took the left, under the overpass. The sky was gray and the traffic was as heavy as it normally was at five-thirty in the evening. Impatience filled the streets.
I always expect you to be there, under the overpass. My eyes always seem to seek you as soon as I get under. And there you were. Salt and pepper beard, so thick it reminds me of a dirty Santa Claus beard. Like a beat up, crusty Santa Claus. Covered in a dusty old olive-green jacket and some torn jeans, I see you shiver in the cold. You stare at the cars as they pass you by. Well, I don't know for sure if you're staring at the cars or just staring. Deep in thought, inside yourself.
Like yesterday, the day before, and the days before then, I asked you in my head, "Why do you live there? How did you let yourself become a victim to the world in such a way? Why can't you get a job? Have you tried? Will no one hire you?"
I asked you these things as I drove past you, wondering when I'm going to give you some spare change. I never carry cash. But if I had some, I'd... what would I do? Would I pull over under the overpass? Would I really hand you money?
As I passed you, I focused on the traffic and fought my way to the right lane. Trying to beat everyone else so they don't cut me off first. I forgot about you then. I drove down the street and found myself at my son's daycare. He filled me with warmth when I hugged him after missing him all day. Little arms wrapped me around my neck as a tiny voice squealed "Mommy!" He was the best part of my day.
On the way home, I passed you again. This time, my toddler pointed at you from his car seat. "Bye bye!" he called as he waved at you. You didn't see. Or maybe you did, but you were too cold to smile. Too hungry to wave.
Next time, I thought in my head. Next time I'll stop.
But I wouldn't.
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